Don’t date broke men! π― And before you roll ya eyes—no, this isn’t about being a gold digger. I’m NOT talking about wanting Chanel bags, vacays, or fancy dinners. Baby I’m talking about emotional peace!π§π½βοΈ I’m talking about what it really costs to be with a man who’s not stable!
When a man is in survival mode, he can’t love you the way you need to be loved! He doesn’t have the emotional capacity, aka, he’s emotionally unavailable π«€ If there’s chaos in his finances, there’s chaos in his spirit!! He’s stressed, overwhelmed, fighting demons, blaming other people, all while drained from overworking, and drowning in comparison. And guess where that pressure lands? π Right in your lap!! π€¦π½βοΈ
You’ll feel it when he becomes emotionally unavailable, snapping over small things, shutting down instead of opening up, and turning cold when you ask for affection. This HURTS!! He doesn’t even like who he is right now, so how’s he gonna pour into you? π€
Let me be clear: it’s not about money—it’s about him not being stable and what that does to you! That energy spills over, it’s very much felt! π You’ll find yourself walking on eggshells, trying to love him through a storm that never stops. And baby, that ain’t love—that’s emotional burnout in disguise!!
Struggle love is NOT romantic! Being his “ride or die” when he can’t even get in the driver’s seat? Pssshhhh π€π½ baby please!! That’s not strength, that’s self-neglect. You are not his therapist, his rehab center, his momma, or his emotional punching bag!
You deserve a man who brings PEACE, not problems. Security, not survival. You’re not crazy for wanting that! That’s called standards, and self-respect! π
Let him HEAL, let him GO, and GROW! Let him build! But don’t let him tear you down in the process!! π―
Don’t date broke men! π― And before you roll ya eyes—no, this isn’t about being a gold digger. I’m NOT talking about wanting Chanel bags, vacays, or fancy dinners. Baby I’m talking about emotional peace!π§π½βοΈ I’m talking about what it really costs to be with a man who’s not stable!
When a man is in survival mode, he can’t love you the way you need to be loved! He doesn’t have the emotional capacity, aka, he’s emotionally unavailable π«€ If there’s chaos in his finances, there’s chaos in his spirit!! He’s stressed, overwhelmed, fighting demons, blaming other people, all while drained from overworking, and drowning in comparison. And guess where that pressure lands? π Right in your lap!! π€¦π½βοΈ
You’ll feel it when he becomes emotionally unavailable, snapping over small things, shutting down instead of opening up, and turning cold when you ask for affection. This HURTS!! He doesn’t even like who he is right now, so how’s he gonna pour into you? π€
Let me be clear: it’s not about money—it’s about him not being stable and what that does to you! That energy spills over, it’s very much felt! π You’ll find yourself walking on eggshells, trying to love him through a storm that never stops. And baby, that ain’t love—that’s emotional burnout in disguise!!
Struggle love is NOT romantic! Being his “ride or die” when he can’t even get in the driver’s seat? Pssshhhh π€π½ baby please!! That’s not strength, that’s self-neglect. You are not his therapist, his rehab center, his momma, or his emotional punching bag!
You deserve a man who brings PEACE, not problems. Security, not survival. You’re not crazy for wanting that! That’s called standards, and self-respect! π
Let him HEAL, let him GO, and GROW! Let him build! But don’t let him tear you down in the process!! π―